It's December Babe.

December is here. It's a personal favourite. (Yes, My Birthday Month. P.S I'm being creepy and indirectly guiding you to go on FB and check my Birthday and shower me with those awww  Birthdaaaayyy babbiiee posts. Just Kidding.)

December.

It sounds so romantic. Well, It is kind of so. There are these cold lonely nights where you can cuddle up with your people or have hot snacking or cherish your relation with your couch or realise the value of your car or just anything that keeps you warm. Warm, not only the scientific heat one but also the happy heart warm, like they say, you keep me warm. Well, I would love to hear someone say that I keep them warm, not in the sense that I look hot and it's the flirt on, but in a way which deciphers that they are comfortable with me, I keep them cosy and happy. :P

December is not just the twelfth month. It's the last month, the year end. December is kind of your summary of the year.

So, it is the end of 2k15.

Let's summarise.

It must have been a tough year for some and a happy one for others. Well, past is in the past, but the past is not going to go till we learn the lesson it ought to convey to us. Here is where December comes into your self-realisation picture.

1. Take a paper. Write what you learnt this year. Write the points You need to add in your charisma. Write the flaws that need to be taken care of. Write all those motivational incidents that may help you grow.

2. Close your eyes. (Read the entire point and then close) Recall the entire year. The new people you met who became an amazing part of your life. The old people who are no longer known to you. The people who came, changed you and left. And the ones, who may or may not be with you, but their memories will always make you smile.

3. Close your eyes again. Now recall the events. The incidents where you saw the true face of people, the situations where you had a breakdown. the moments where you enjoyed the high life. And the times that are going to be your treasure for life.

4. Mirror Time. Go in front of the mirror and analyse yourself. The good you did, the bad you did, the better you could have done, the wiser you could have been, but in the end, see who you are and how much of kilograms of  awesomeness is stored in you.

5.Conclude. You have now analysed your year and now you know what all you did and what all circumstances occurred. SO this is conclusion time, Go and apologise to people who got hurt 'cause of you. Go and thank the people who make your life a beautiful one. Go and just say it, say what you want to actually say to the people who are in your life. Face off time man.

6. PAAAARTTYY. It's December. The Christmas Month, The New Year, The etc etc. This is the last of 2k15. Seize it. Enjoy. Party. Just be haaapppyyy.

So this was a short post. Actually it was a random post which I wrote to welcome December 'cause again I Love December. Happy December.

#iambeautiful

Signing Out. . .

Yes! They say it right, words have the power to change people, reshape emotions, stop wars and dig an immortal grave.

But is it just the words ?

Many people around the world prefer communicating about some tough issue over messages. Why, you ask. Simple, it's easier to either face denial or to point out offensive things over the cloud.

Once you say something upsetting to a person on his/her face, you see what effects your saying has done. You see how their eyes are no more twinkling, how their voice no longer has the zeal which you adore, how their soft, warm hands are now becoming restless due to the unfriendly words you adorned. You notice how their reactions have been configured by your actions.

Similarly, if you are full of joy and you share it with your loved ones, you can noticeably observe their energy going from "The heart wants what it wants" to "Good for you" (Both by Selena Gomez), i.e they instantly become happy and their eyeballs magnify and they hug or kiss you to show you how much you mean to them, their smile becomes so large that their not-so-white molars n premolars are visible to you.

But all these gestures, which are not words are killed through emojis when you convey your things to your own people by just leaving a text.

The gestures, unlike words which are said n heard, are supposed to be felt. Their hugs, kisses, smiles, frowns, tears are supposed to be felt by you, only then they actually mean to you.

If someone is hungry, do you send a pizza slice emoji and then behave like you fed them ? Do they thank you for the heavy meal?

So how can you now, fulfil yours n others thirst of emotions just through texts, statuses, DPs etc etc etc.

**sarcasm**

See, I wished you Happy Birthday on FB in a gigantic elephant paragraph but in reality, I don't even know where you were born or what are your priorities or what are your interests or, in whole, what kind of person you are. but hey, Does it matter? I thought just being BFF or soul mate in the virtual world is #lifegoals .

**sarcasmover**

Isn't it sad?

I am sure you must have read how this virtual world has messed up life and all. But I don't agree. I won't say that the virtual world has done anything wrong, it is Us. We are lazy. We need something easy always. And it's easy to express ourselves online, it is easy to label any offensive thing as being misunderstood. It is easy to break up with your lover over the mobile, as you won' have to face the tears or drama or whatever it is for you. It is easy to say congratulations on a post rather than to waste an hour listening to your friend's victory story. It is just so easy to show off the world that how much you love someone on the internet, right?

I was bored the other day, so I started just random checking of Instagram profiles, I came across a bio, which read " Being famous on Instagram is like being rich in monopoly", ahaha ! I liked it a lot, though i know that the profile owner must be praying for more followers daily. Well, it's a crazy world.

Coming back to emotions. Emotions, the dictionary definition I don't know, but what I know is that emotions are felt. You may not feel that much amount of love seeing your crush's/lover's photograph, but when they are in front of you, damn the adrenaline takes you.

So, not overdoing this post and conveying my social message, I suggest you not to leave your online avatars but to fit in your offline ones too.

The people who mean to you. who make you happy, who are the important ones, your gang, your dwarfs, your musketeers, the people who you love are not the ones who are to be treated as your virtual life. They are your real life.

Feel their smiles.

Feel their giggles.

Feel their screams.

Feel their voices.

Feel their cribs.

Feel their hugs.

Feel their kisses.

Feel their tears.

Feel their presence.

Feel the space. This is your space. This is where you are happy, free and infinite.

#iambeautiful

The Whispering Pines.

I heard him say,’ You Are Exquisite’ but later I repented not voicing his whisper ,’especially to me’.

We speak, the other listens. We make our perceptions, the other opinion extinct.

So many languages in the world, English Hindi Punjabi Italian Spanish French Tamil Chinese etc, yet we can communicate with everyone, Through the language of love, the whispered words.

Pauolo Coelho said that if you learn the universal language of love, you can communicate with any person, nature and even universe.

But today, I just want to focus on the whispered language. The language of unsaid words. The unheard instincts screaming in their own turmoil.

Whispers.

She told her mother, ‘I want to be alone’ but the water in her eyes attested her need of love. Her whisper ,’I need you now I just can’t admit it’ was the only thing with her in her dark pink room.

He told his friend,’ Dude ! let’s go for a party. I don’t care about the break-up I just had’ whereas he whispered,’ C’mon let’s play some really violent video games and just talk because I feel low’

He replied to his GF,’ BAE I don’t have much money’ and his whisper said,’ Bitch don’t you dare use me for money’

She retorted to the professor,’ Umm that’s it’ and simultaneously whispered,’ I can explain it better than you but your big fat Ego would cut my GPA. So hell man.’

A group of friends, the best place to see millions of words colliding with billions of whispers. Some say what they mean. Some can’t voice their feelings. And many just remain mannequins. In a group of really good friends, there will be more smiles and more words and less whispers and less social talks.

This world would be a better place if whispers were spoken in a polite way and heard in a loving way.

We say. 'It’s complicated’. Who made it so ?

I assume it’s your life. And just the way you have pass codes and look after your mobile or the way you have locked drawers for your stuff; you have a concern for your life too. It’s your responsibility.

Don’t be an ignorer(new word,eh). Don’t enter the whispered group.
 No one is going to hear you; unless you speak for yourself. 

This world works on words. False. It actually functions on the whispers i.e. the inner intentional feel.

Quoting in E.L James style, "Whispers are the words of my inner erotic raw soul which have never felt the structure of your lusty ears.''

We may state that we know everything. we know how the other feels, we just know. But do we actually know what is supposed to be or we just know what we think should be?

When we say those words which contradict our whispers, the other person either takes it in a Voldemort way or assumes something which gives him comfort, but which is a lie otherwise.

So many times people don't speak what they actually wanna splatter out of their foul mouths. There are n number of heavenly and devilish reasons for people to hide up their true self. I am not going to be a preacher n guide you out of this. You are your own dark and you have your own scars and you need to now let your scars be that place from where light enters. You need to force yourself out of the bubble you have created. Go, make a big bubble with people of your kind with a true n pure shampoo n baking soda mixture (I tried this once, hell of a disaster), just let the scientific experiments be a disaster, not your life !

#iambeautiful :)

If You Can Learn

Humans have a tendency to be rigid and obsessed with themselves. They don't want to have any advice from others about their own particular life.

My very own favourite quote of Winston Churchill is "Personally I am always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught."

But if you can keep aside your complex psychology and try to imbibe the laws of nature, then this universe has so much to offer.

Let's try to learn a bit from the universe.

 

If you can learn, learn from things happening around.

If you are not an egotistical maniac then you can learn from the fellow beings around the most. Learn the way they live, not exist.

Once I met a person, namely ‘XYZ’, who changed my perspective of life. XYZ was focused and determined yet at the same time XYZ did full justice to ‘Carpe Diem’. XYZ planned about the unpredictable future still never compromised with the available present. If you ever asked XYZ that what could be changed in his present, he would simply retort with a Nothing. Because he was living the way he wanted to live. This thing caught me. We either get totally carried forward by our dreams, ignoring the present, or we stay bounded in our past. XYZ taught a simple yet so complicated principle of life – enjoy your life now and also enjoy your life tomorrow. Plan, dream, work but live too. You should be able to answer the question “What is it that you want to change in your life?” with a Nothing. You should live the way you want to live from now on itself. Don’t wait for colleges or graduations or any other career achievement to make you happy. Don't linger on the practice of being grateful just because your wild love life is not so wild yet. Be happy now with what all you can have.

One more thing XYZ had which never ceased to miss my eye was Hakuna Matata. No Worries. All cool. Never lose your calm in any freaking hot situation.

So what else can can you learn?

You can learn almost everything if you are ready to learn with an open heart.

(I just wrote this post in one go, sitting in a car and observing around my enigmatic environment)

 

If you can learn from animals, then you can learn so many unspoken traits of humanity.

Take a dog, for example, showering you with unconditional love, providing you doubtless loyalty and hearing your boring dramas over n over ‘gain. Learn from them the qualities of being a true friend, which they obviously are.

Now come to cats. Oh! People change their way seeing them (stereotypes, Duh!). Yet cats jump high, run fast and hide perfectly. Learn from them some jugaad(ways to make things happen your way)

I just saw a cow. They are worshiped in India, seriously? They roam around on the roads, starving and dying. They get to eat poly-bags and our wastes. They sit in the middle of the road for a sunbath and everyone crosses the road carefully avoiding to disturb them but when they lie injured, who goes for their first aid? Learn from this the difference between fake fame and real care. The ones who from heart worship them, care and nurture them; the others are just faking the love. Love and respect is not just opposing beef; it is providing cows with a shelter and a fodder.

Chirp chirp I hear, so many birds around. You love birds but You want them for you and you cage them. You take away their freedom for your momentary pleasures. Is this love? Keeping someone in a boundary that you created. No. Learn the art of letting go. If you love them, set them free.

Now let’s talk about green, the plants. You water them, provide them with manures and even talk to them when you need solitary peace. Plants pamper you with fruits or flowers or some medicinal herb even if  you not take due care of them. It’s in their nature to quest the thirst of humans. You can learn to be kind and respectful and helpful to everyone, despite of the fact how much wrecked their karma is.

If you can learn, learn the language of universe which needs no words.

( Bibliography – The Alchemist, Pauolo Coelho)

Learn the way the sun shines bright and bright even after proving light to its beloved moon.

Learn the way the mountains reward the plains with rivers.

Learn the way the plains thank the mountains through the greens.

Learn the way the Great Pyramids hold still and high.

Learn from the nature, the universe and the mankind.

If you look around yourself, you will find yourself in a mystical world and you won’t ever say, ‘ I m bored’

But you have to be  willing to look.

And you have to be patient enough to let the nature come bare in front of your crooked and manipulative thoughts.

#iambeautiful (I am gonna use this everywhere, cuz I am indeed beautiful :) )